Abusive Relationships

Girls, if you are in an abusive relationship there is only one option – get out! Walk away from him. Abuse often progresses as the relationship does, and it gets deeper, and more dangerous, as you get closer. The faster you can get out, the better, before more emotional strings form and your heart gets more attached.

You may want to prove to yourself or others that this CAN work! After all, all things are possible with God, right? But don’t fool yourself. And don’t let this man fool you.

You may have heard it a million times, but it’s true, YOU cannot change him. Unless he realizes he needs help and seeks it and you see changes, you need to step away, if you want the best for yourself and your life.

Getting into an abusive relationship is like a trap, or a spider web. You don’t realize the danger at first, and before you know it you’re entangled. But the harder you stay and struggle, the more “caught”, or stuck you become. So, JUST SAY NO! Don’t allow manipulation, lies and empty promises woo you or lure you into one more day with him.

I know what it is like to be in an abusive relationship, and to feel so deep in that you don’t want to get out, though you know you should. And abuse isn’t just physical – there are many types of abuse including verbal and mental.  But there is a way out, and that is the best way.

I pray that if you are in an abusive relationship or situation in any way, shape or form that you will make the choice and walk away from it today.  Not two days from now, not next week, but TODAY!  God will restore all of the things this man took away from you and He will give you a new hope, joy and life. Trust God. He is your Provider, Healer and Restorer. I pray He will do a new thing in your life and bring a godly man into your life at just the right time, that treats you like the princess you are!  God bless you all! Goodnight!