Girls, I can truly say the grass isn’t always greener on the other side! There are so many single girls who want a boyfriend now; yet so many girls in relationships at this moment that are the most un-happy they’ve ever been. Being in a relationship doesn't equal happiness. Some couples just learn to "exist" with one another. Others constantly fight...
It is so refreshing to say goodbye to a guy who isn’t treating you right, didn’t ever treat you right, and never will treat you right! Yes, it can be excruciatingly painful to let go of him at the beginning… but when something in your gut is telling you he’s not good and you listen to that – you are on your way to better days! If you are a Christian, the Holy Spirit will lead you and guide you. God whispers in the silence of your heart what is and isn’t right, if you will listen.
I encourage you today, if you are in a stale relationship, falling into compromise, being de-valued or just don’t feel right about this guy to let him go. Let him fly! The sooner you do it, the easier it will be. The longer we stay in relationships, the more entangled we become, no matter how unhealthy they are.
I’ve recently come out of one of the worst relationships in my entire my life. It wasn’t easy, but it is so worth it in the end! When you look back a month later, two months later, three... you will wonder what in the world you were thinking!
I pray that you all will realize your beauty, worth, and true identity in Jesus Christ and how amazing that is! God promises a HOPE and FUTURE for you. He will give you the desires of your heart, when you make him the number one desire of your heart. Let Him be your first true love and Believe!
Love you all!
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